Working parents- and
that's the majority of American families today- share the anxiety, frustration,
and even fear involved in leaving children "on their own" when school lets out,
child care arrangements with neighbors and relatives break down, or there simply
are not any alternatives.
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
* Make sure your
children are ready to care for themselves.
* Teach them basic
safety rules.
* Know where your
kids are, what they are doing, and whom they are with.
ARE THEY READY? CAN YOUR CHILDREN...
1. Be trusted to go
straight home after school?
2. Easily use the
telephone, locks, and kitchen appliances?
3. Follow rules and
instructions well?
4. Handle unexpected
situations without panicking?
5. Stay home alone
without being afraid?
Talk it over with
them, and listen to their worries and ideas. Work out rules on having friends
over, household chores, homework, and television. Remember, staying at home
alone can build a child's self esteem, sense of responsibility, and practical
skills.
TEACH YOUR "HOME ALONE" CHILDREN
1. How to call 9-1-1
or your area's emergency number, or call the operator?
2. How to give
directions to your house in case of an emergency?
3. To check in with
you or a neighbor immediately after arriving home.
4. To never accept
gifts or rides from people they don't know well. (And you approve of)
5. How to use the
door, windows, locks and the alarm system if you have one?
6. To never let
anyone into the home without asking your permission.
7. To never let a
caller at the door or on the phone know they are alone.
8. To carry a house
key with them in a safe place (inside a shirt pocket or sock)-do not leave it
under a mat or on a ledge.
9. How to escape in
case of fire?
10. To not go into
the house or apartment if things do not look right- a broken window, ripped
screen, or opened door.
11. To let you know about anything that frightens them or makes them feel
uncomfortable.
